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  • Kay Niks
  • AndYouCanCallMeSassafrass
  • Female
  • Canada
  • Read my blogs, and you will quickly find out. Trust me.

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Saturday 11 july 2009 6 11 /07 /Jul /2009 04:59

So this is great.
I meet this guy
great catch
rough around the edges, but overall amazing.
can't take my eyes off him
hes perfect..

okay, wrong word choice
perfect is a terrible word to use.
hes far from it.
lots of drama is associated with him
it stalks him, i swear.
do i like that? hmm... not entirely.
hes had quite the history
and i have to admit, it scares me

does someone wanna explain to me why i go for the bad boys?
the ones with the wild personalities, cute smiles, hot bodies, a crazy past...

okay the hot body is definitely a brownie point earner
but that can't be it.
i'll tell you the real reason why girls go for the bad boys....

because they think they can change them

...i'll give you this time to giggle quietly to yourself...

yes, change them.
funny thing is, we all know its not gonna happen.
when do they REALLY change?
not often, i'll say that much.
now before you think im going sexist here, ill make it clear that even girls are this stubborn.
no one will change unless they themselves want to change
end of story
you will not make him a "better person"
you will not "tame the wild beast"
he will tame himself when he is ready
until then, have fun on the ride he takes you on.
thing is, us girls can't seem to help ourselves.
its not like we don't know in advance what we're getting ourselves into
bad boys will be bad boys. this seems logical.
but in reality, it's idiotic.

what do girls want? jerks? no.
they want the sweet, caring kind.
the kind that puts her first above all
makes time for her
tells her he misses her
holds her like he should.
these all seem like nice ideas
but then again, this is not enough for us female species.
no, he must be the strong one in the relationship.
sensitive, but tough
loving, but aggressive
easy going, but jealous
see the pattern here?
how confusing is it to hear you must be everything, PLUS the opposite
correct me if im wrong but i believe that is impossible.
really, if you think about it, is there ever a happy medium?
can bad boys ever REALLY win?
can good boys ever really win?
perhaps it's fair game after all..

now, will i ever learn from my mistakes?
probably not
at least, not any time soon.
for now, i'm slightly enjoying the craziness of a wild child
its fun, exhilarating even.
so ill sit back and enjoy the ride
who knows, the bad boy may not be so bad after all.

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Wednesday 18 march 2009 3 18 /03 /Mar /2009 02:31

Okay
Obviously I dont mean it.
Don't you dare hail him
Don't even think about it.
Hes an unworthy piece of shit that deserves nothing more than a swift kick to the groin.

...okay i take that back.
He doesnt deserve that.
But I would say its fairly apparent that I am upset

Why, you may ask?
Because... I'm in love.
And its become quite obvious to me that being in love means being miserable.
Sounds fun right?
Yeah... not always.

"Falling in love", they say it for a reason.
Falling is painless, graceful, silent..
but upon impact, becomes extremely painful, sometimes fatal.
Which just so happens to describe the feeling to a T.

Heres a scenario for you:
Girl meets boy
Girl likes boy (generally accompanied by butterflies)
Boy flirts with Girl (here come the butterflies again)
Girl falls for Boy (this is where the sayin comes into play. this part is graceful)
then...
BOY STOMPS ON GIRLS HEART!
and shabam, bring on the pain.

With that said, perhaps falling into love is not the part to worry about
perhaps the damage is all in the aftermath of falling in love..

Even so, if we know the indefinite hurt that tags along with falling in love
then why do we jump?
the answer is simple...
we LIKE being miserable.

Is it possible that we as humans actually enjoy this pain we call love?
If not, why else do so many of us strive to achieve it
some even going as far as setting themselves up for heartache, just to find their potential chosen one.
Seems like the dumbest idea known to man
Yet, we all do it.
I know I have

And this is where my dilemma begins.
Seems as if my "chosen one" has someone else in mind as HIS "chosen one"
This is where I say, eff my life.

I met
I like
I flirt
I jump
I fell
and... I crash

No one was waiting at the bottom to catch me from my freefall
and I in turn was faced to suffer the full extent of my injuries.
I should be pro at this freefalling by now though
Not as if i've never made this jump before.
I should know by now to not depend on another to save me.
Sometimes you have to save yourself.

So let me leave you with this,
next time you decide to face your own freefall
make sure to have your parachute cord in hand
you know... just incase.

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Thursday 5 march 2009 4 05 /03 /Mar /2009 02:48
All right, this is my first attempt at a blog. Bear with me here.

Lets start off with a little inside scoop on yours truly.

In a nutshell, I am fun, creative and outgoing. Often described as aggressive.
Piss me off and I'll bite your head off, but make me laugh and a great friendship could be in the works.
I live for writing, hoping to one day make my hobby into a profession.
My passions in life are as follows:

-Writing
-Acting
-Dancing
-Singing
-Photography
-Music

Any art form you can name, I love it.

Expect to see interesting photos and videos posted often. It's how I do.

Also expect to see  rants, some serious, some comical, posted shortly.
I'm constantly full of opinions, as you will find out for yourself.

Sassafrass is the name, and blogging is the game, bitches.

Enjoy the great reads to come.


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